Once upon a time, if you wanted to buy a Fleshlight, you had to head to a brick and mortar store. You had to browse among other customers and everyone knew what you were buying. If you were in a shared living situation, coming home with a black bag either meant you had brought home booze or something from a seedy sex shop.

There was no discretion, and this was a problem for introverts, people uncomfortable purchasing sensitive items among others, and those with roommates.

In today’s world, we have the glorious internet, which allows droves of people access to Fleshlights without anyone else having a single clue as to what they’re ordering. Fleshlight has had its own online store for over 20 years!

In 2019, most sex toy companies understand the importance of shipping under a discreet name and not having anything telling on the shipping box.

Despite the convenience, cheaper prices, and a wide range of choices, there are still risks when shopping online. There is an overwhelming amount of information available online and more than just a few dishonest retailers. With that in mind, I took the time to put together a comprehensive guide for you, my dear readers, on how to find and buy a Fleshlight online at the lowest price.

You may have heard some rumors about these elusive Fleshlight coupons that a select few websites have been graced with. It’s nearly impossible to find one that actually works or isn’t expired.

It’s my pleasure to announce that we’ve teamed up with Fleshlight to bring you one of these exclusive coupons for our fellow TugBros! 

Simply click the button below and use code: “TUGBRO10” at checkout for 10% off your purchase storewide!

Choosing Your Fleshlight – The Basics

With a staggering one hundred textures to choose from, purchasing a Fleshlight, whether it’s your first, or fifth, can be an intimidating ordeal.

Not only is there a plethora of textures to choose from, but there is also the orifice options. Fleshlight currently offers the standard butt, mouth, pussy, and (butt) cheeks in addition to a huge collection of orifices modeled after real porn stars.

Click here to take advantage of Fleshlight’s 2 for 1 deal!

That’s not even going into the Turbo, Quickshot, etc. Fleshlight has a ton of options that don’t even resemble a bodily orifice. And don’t get me started on the fact that the case and sleeves come in many different colors as well! There are tons of options and that can be overwhelming to many buyers.

The standard Fleshlight has four parts: case, two end caps, and the sleeve.

However, once you have your first full-length Fleshlight, you may opt to buy individual sleeves in order to save some money. All standard sized sleeves and all Fleshlight Girls’ sleeves are the same size and can all be used with the same case.

To rewind a bit to the non-conventional Fleshlights currently, we have sex toy lines like Flight, Sex in a Can (often referred to as SIAC by other websites), Go, Vibro, Turbo, and the transparent Ice line. Fleshlight also offers a huge range of accessories, these include a shower mount, cleaning solutions, a sleeve warmer, and various automatic masturbation devices.

If you are unsure which one you want to try first, I recommend either browsing our reviews here on Tugbro or searching the forums on the official Fleshlight website. The forums are a great place to find answers to common questions, but if you can’t find the answer you’re looking for, you can always leave a comment below and we will get back to you as soon as possible!

You can also read my top Fleshlight recommendations in our Ultimate FL Buyers Guide.


Where Should You Buy A Fleshlight?

Official Fleshlight Website

When shopping for a Fleshlight, the absolute best place to get exactly what you want with the widest range of options is the official Fleshlight website. Buying directly from their website ensures that you get the real thing because as I said before there are a good bit of dishonest sellers online. The best part about buying directly from Fleshlight.com is that you get the lowest price because you don’t have to pay a stocking fee, and you can often find deals on the official website. These deals are worth waiting for if you plan on buying multiple sleeves at a time.

Click here for all of Fleshlight’s current deals/promotions


Fleshlights on Amazon

While shopping on Amazon is generally safe and reliable, when purchasing sex toys – it’s best to avoid Amazon.

Tons of people use this market place to sell fake name-brand sex toys and you won’t always get what you pay for. If you do choose to shop at Amazon for your Fleshlight, I recommend doing some intensive research on the seller or try to buy from ILF, LLC – Offical Store.

While Amazon may offer convenience and fast shipping, the risks more than outweigh the benefits and you’ll always end up paying less and receive better service at official sex toy retailers.


Other Online Sex Stores

Most online sex stores don’t carry the full range of available Fleshlights, mainly because their collection is so extensive. While this can be a huge con to some, it does have its pros.

Shopping at LoveHoney or SheVibe for your Fleshlight allows you to add other products to your order (the Sona by Lelo is a great gift for the special lady in your life). I can only recommend these two online sex toy retailers as they are the only two I have shopped with (other than official websites).

Click here to check Lovehoney’s deal of the day!


What Are Products Should I Be Looking At?

Fleshlight prices don’t often vary, so trying to find a “cheap” model will only lead you to those aforementioned fakes and products that don’t quite match the quality we’ve all come to love from Fleshlight.

The standard and Fleshlight Girls sleeves cost around $60-$80, this usually depends on if you want the case with it or just the sleeve.

Buying multiple sleeves at one time often results in a discount, so if you already have one case, that may be the route to go.

Fleshlight does offer smaller models, such as Sex in a Can, Go, and Flight. These run about $40-$50 but aren’t great for guys who are larger than average. Otherwise, these are great alternatives to the standard sleeves for those on a budget. Read my reviews on the Go here and the Flight here.

Another tug-tastic option for those on a budget is the Quickshot line. These run about $30-$40. While they aren’t nearly as tug-friendly and intricate as typical Fleshlight sleeves, they are small, cheap, and easy to clean. The downside, well it may be an upside to some, is that it doesn’t encompass the entire penis. It is basically an open donut and leaves parts of the penis exposed when in use.

You can read my full review of the Quickshot models “Vantage” and “Boost” here.


How To Get The Best Price Possible

The official Fleshlight website often runs deals, with the biggest discount being around 20% year-round, and the biggest sale being during Black Friday for around 30% off.

They also offer free shipping on orders over $99 and currently have a “2 for 1” deal which gets you an entire sleeve of your choosing free of charge when you buy 2 custom sleeves!

You can take advantage of Fleshlight’s 2 for 1 deal by clicking here or the image below.

It’s more difficult to find deals and sales on Fleshlights in other stores. It is a rare find to get a Fleshlight on clearance through any other website aside from their own. I just wouldn’t set my heart on getting a good deal anywhere else.

Please note that vouchers found online when you search “Fleshlight discount codes” are always fake and will not work.

That being said, Fleshlight was nice enough to make us our very own code that our readers can use to save 10% off sitewide:

Working codes are incredibly uncommon, which is why I reached out to Fleshlight and asked if they’d make a code for our readers. While individual sex toy stores may have their own promo codes, it’s rare to find one for the Fleshlight store itself. And even when I do come across those for individual sex stores, I become skeptical of the product and wonder if it’s a fake.

Staying caught up with our Fleshlight reviews is the best way to save money on all your male sex toy needs- it’s our mission to help get you sensational tug-time for the absolute best price and value!

I’ve actually made a standalone post which is all the best deals at Fleshlight which will help you save big at Fleshlight.

Seasonal Fleshlight Deals

I personally buy sex toys whenever I want them, I hate waiting for a special day to get a deal and just want the latest and greatest in my hands as soon as it hits the shelves.

If you can wait, there is some money to be saved with these annual sex toy sales events.

Black FridayObviously, this is going to be the best time of the year to buy Fleshlights or any other sex toy. There will not be another time of the year when the discounts will be so deep across a wide variety of websites.

While Black Friday isn’t the only time of the year to find great deals, it is the best. Other than Black Friday there is also Cyber Monday, the holiday season, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day, Father’s Day, Back to School sales, and Halloween.

It’s best to wait for one of these days, and thankfully, there is usually some holiday in which the company will have a sale right around the corner!

A quick note about 2019 – I have noticed a decrease in the sales and promotions that Fleshlight has run this year. I have very high expectations for the Black Friday event this year and plan on buying multiple sleeves for myself during this event.

Save Big on Sex Toys!

Usually, sex toy deals will start the Wednesday or Thursday before “Black Friday”.

This year, Black Friday falls on November 29th. Black Friday Prices usually only last for a day or two, but then comes Cyber Monday. Cyber Monday deals can be just as amazing as Black Friday deals, so it may be worth holding out – but as I have already said, I have no patience when it comes to getting the sex toy I want.

Over the last couple of years, I have kept track of the discounts I’ve seen for different sex toy companies, and I’ll list those below, so you’ll have an idea of what to expect from each company.

Fleshlights and Fleshjacks: These usually run *25%; 40%* off for bundles, and when you spend over $150 you often get a free mystery sleeve, a Quickshot, or another surprise.

​Lelo: They usually offer *30-50% off*. They usually only offer a few products at this discount, and if you miss this sale, you’ll likely have to wait for another year to get a great deal on Lelo products.

Aneros: Usually offers *30-40%* off for Black Friday.

​Kiiroo: These will run anywhere from *20-50%* off

Liberator: They usually offer *30%* off.

Amazon isn’t a great place to shop for sex toys and usually isn’t a great place to find Black Friday deals on sex toys. There are some discounts, but they’re hard to find and you run the risk of getting a horrible knockoff.

If you’ve missed Black Friday and Cyber Monday, don’t fret. You may have missed the deepest discounts, but most sellers have great deals throughout the year. Most of these sales center around a holiday and won’t be as good, but you can usually find deals up to ~25% off.

Other Occasions to Save on Sex Toys

Christmas & Other Holiday Deals

Tons of sex toy companies will run deals for most of December because of Christmas and other holidays. These deals aren’t as good as Black Friday or Cyber Monday, but they are the closest you’ll get all year.


Fleshlights and Fleshjacks: These run about 20% off during December and when you spend $150 or more, you’ll often get a free mystery sleeve, a Quickshot, or a free gift.


Lelo, Aneros, Liberator, and other sex toy companies: These companies will run more limited deals during December. The deals with these three companies are usually either deep discounts on select products or they run a storewide sale for 10 to 15% off.


Lovehoney and other sex toy shops: These companies usually have a coupon code for 10-15% off, check their website or sign up for their newsletter.


Boxing Day Sex Toy sales

Boxing Day is the day after Christmas, originating from the United Kingdom. This holiday is celebrated in a number of countries, and many sex toy companies and stores will use this day for sales. They often run discounts from anywhere to a day to three days. These discounts can be as good as the ones found during Thanksgiving.


New Year’s Day Specials

For most people, New Year’s Day not only signifies the beginning of a new year but also wraps up the holiday season. Sex toy deals will dry up for a bit after this day and it’s a great time to get a masturbator you want before the next good promotion. These deals can be as good as those found on Boxing Day, but only a few companies take part in these sales.


Valentine’s Day Sex Toy Promotions

Ah, the day of love. Tons of sex toy companies and stores will offer a great discount for Valentine’s Day. What a better way to celebrate the day of love than with some self-love?


President’s Day, Mardi Gras, St. Patrick’s Day, Memorial Day Sex Toy Deals

Long weekends are great for the overworked employee, but not so much for big discounts. While you can find some sales and some great deals, it will involve some work.


4th of July Specials

Fleshlight and Fleshjack celebrate this American holiday with a couple of small deals. They are usually joined by other companies and stores, but the deals won’t be as deep as they were during the holidays.


Labor Day and Back to School ​Promotions

The summer of little to no deals and discounts comes to a close with some decent deals for Labor Day and back to school specials. Fleshlight and Fleshjack usually offer promotions around this time and other sex toy stores and companies, like Lelo and Lovehoney, will offer discounts as well.


Halloween Markdowns

This is the peak season for Black Friday. It is when everyone has started to prepare for the holiday season and they are looking forward to Black Friday. Halloween sales often offer great discounts and deals.

Can’t Find Your Ideal Sleeve?

I know that I have briefly reviewed a few Fleshlight sleeves that are discontinued, so you may be trying to find one that isn’t available on the website anymore.

It’s worth noting that some Fleshlights are released for a limited amount of time, or that it may now be listed under a different name. If you find that a sleeve is not currently listed on the official website then that means it is not currently available for purchase.

The good news is that Fleshlight often re-introduces popular sleeves with a different name. You can stay up-to-date by reading some of our Fleshlight reviews, checking out Fleshlight.com or the SubReddit: /r/fleshlight. You’ll be able to keep track of all info and updates regarding your desired sleeve.

Fleshlight Ordering, Shipping, Billing, & Returns

Of course, when buying from any retailer we’ve recommended in this post, you can assure that no one will know that you’re ordering Fleshlights. You can shop for your masturbatory device with peace of mind. Your housemates, delivery person, nor the bank will know what you’ve been up to.

When shopping at the Fleshlight store, you should be aware that they only accept returns for unopened or faulty items. For more details on their (or anyone’s) ordering, shipping, billing, and return policies, you should seek out their FAQ page before ordering.

I’ve heard nothing but positive reviews from the excellent customer service that Fleshlight consistently provides.

You can click here to read what your fellow consumers have to say!

Full disclosure: This review contains affiliate links and purchasing from one of these links doesn’t cost you anything extra. I earn a small commission from each purchase made from my links, which helps to keep TugBro up and running.

I don’t recommend products just because I am an affiliate, I recommend them because I enjoy them and hope you will, too. I respect and value you as a reader and you can always expect my honest and unbiased opinion.

Tugger Cox is a man's man who doesn't shy away from testing the latest and greatest sex-related products available for men. Think of him as your own personal sex toy guinea pig. He does all of the "hard work" testing toys and products to educate men around the world on which products are worth buying and which should be avoided.


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