Literally everyone has read the words “Adult Friend Finder” at least once during their search for internet tug-material. It’s easily the most popular online dating site and it’s been operating since… forever.

The service conducted its advertising largely on free porn sites which lead to it gaining widespread attention all over the world. Through this advertising campaign, the platform cemented its name in the mind of the public and a hook-up paradise was created.

Adult Friend Finder is the most legit dating site online right now, at least as far as hookup-themed dating sites go. We all know some people who go to dating sites and nine times out of ten, their reason is – because going out in a bar and talking to random strangers is pretty much impossible for them.

Besides, I’ve always thought you could connect way more with people, especially women through a chat conversation if you knew how to keep a conversation going – and that’s where Adult Friend Finder excels! Basically, it’ll put you in contact with open-minded singles and the rest is on you.

Anyway, let’s take a look at Adult Friend Finder, how it came to be what it is today, and what can you expect by joining the site. 

What Is Adult Friend Finder?


Ah, Adult Friend Finder… My own personal hookup concierge. Since “Friends With Benefits Finder” just doesn’t have the same ring to it, they went with Adult Friend Finder instead.

Adult Friend Finder was launched way back in 1996 (the dawning age of the internet) and it was the site that practically created online dating as a concept. Over the past 24 years, it has stood the test of time and has continued to gradually improve while enlarging its user base and drawing in more and more women because let’s face it – nobody likes a sausage fest on a dating site. 

Today, Adult Friend Finder is by far the largest, and most varied dating site, offering more options to meet people than literally any other dating site out there – yes, including OkCupid! It has about 25 million users, an active community and a bunch of stuff you can personalize on your profile to help you get in contact with more potential partners! Some of this includes, of course, your picture, although hopefully not one of your pecker as a profile picture; info about your eyes, height, weight, relationship status, desires and so on. But they also have more hard-core stuff like tests, the ability to live-stream, sexual performance courses you can buy to improve your game, and so on. 

Adult Friend Finder is one of the places on the internet where sex is glorified and put above anything else. This is what makes it special – the platform doesn’t care who you are and doesn’t analyze you like other dating sites – but it still puts you in contact with more people! See someone near you that you like? Send them a message! Send them a “Flirt” instead – Adult Friend Finder’s version of a Facebook poke.

How Does It Work?

Adult Friend Finder has a ton of special features to offer to its user base. First of all, the site allows users to pick what they’re here for. Casual sex, or looking for something more serious? Looking for a threesome? An orgy? A soulmate? A live-in girlfriend? A dominatrix?!

It doesn’t matter. They’re all on Adult Friend Finder anyway. How’s that for a special feature?

Other than that, Adult Friend Finder has a very developed search engine even for free users. This thing can help you track down who killed Jimmy Hoffa, let alone a partner for sex. It has so many options – for age, relationship status, relationship desire, physical appearance, photos, videos, height, weight – you name it, it’s got it! 

The site also provides the opportunity for virtual sex through the use of Connexion sex toys. This isn’t employed by any other dating site and is another unique edge held by AFF. That would have been impressive without the fact that Adult Friend Finder has a very active community along with a ton of chat rooms where users can talk to each other in public before moving their conversation to their private messages.

The edge is taken off of online dating, there is no rush of adrenaline that clouds your judgment and you can be your relaxed self with strangers who are there to meet someone like you. Adult Friend Finder just makes it too easy to stop tuggin’ every day!

How Much Does It Cost?

Let’s first mention that you can do pretty much anything with a free account on Adult Friend Finder.

However, should you choose to go for the Gold Membership or earn it through earning points (AFF’s currency), you will find a myriad of options open only for your new status. For starters, there have been studies that say girls won’t even talk to you on Adult Friend Finder if you don’t have a Gold Membership. Not rumors. Studies. So think about it. 

Anyway, before we talk about how much a Gold Membership costs, you probably want to know if you’re gonna be able to get it. The payment methods available at Adult Friend Finder include credit card, bank transfer, online check, postal check/money order or pay by phone. If you’ve found yours, let’s continue. 

There are a few Gold Membership plans available at Adult Friend Finder, length-wise. 

  • 1-month membership ($40)
  • 3-month membership ($81, comes out to $27 per month)
  • 12-month membership ($240, comes out to $20 per month!)

Also, you can pay to allow others to send you emails. This also comes in three plans. 

  • 1 month ($20)
  • 3 months ($36, comes out to $12 per month)
  • 12 months ($108, comes out to $9 per month!)

Some of the Gold Membership benefits include:

Viewing profiles in full

Viewing private photos

Advanced search tool

Emails to both full and free members


More data storage

Video profiles

Viewing webcams

Priority customer support

Is Adult Friend Finder Legit?

You might still be wondering, is Adult Friend Finder real?

There’s no way that there are girls in my area that actually want to fuck me… is there?

I will admit, I was very skeptical about Adult Friend Finder before giving it a shot. Many of their advertisements, as well as their sign-up page, make it seem a tad on the sketchy side. However, that could be because I’ve been scammed out of money on “adult hookup sites” in the past, which essentially just took my credit card payment and never actually got me any dates.

Adult Friend Finder is one of the only legit hookup sites available and it’s one of two that have successfully gotten me laid, the second being Ashley Madison (which I’ve reviewed here).

I’m still signed up for Adult Friend Finder to this day because it’s my personal favorite hookup site. The prices are more than reasonable and I’ve been able to meet plenty of quality girls in my area.

If all of that’s not enough to get you to visit Adult Friend Finder (on your own this time, not through an ad on a porn site), nothing ever will. If you wanna meet people, you gotta go out and do it instead of just thinking about it – and Adult Friend Finder is one of the best places for the job! 

If you don’t want to tug by yourself anymore, go check out the site – it can’t hurt!

Tugger Cox is a man's man who doesn't shy away from testing the latest and greatest sex-related products available for men. Think of him as your own personal sex toy guinea pig. He does all of the "hard work" testing toys and products to educate men around the world on which products are worth buying and which should be avoided.


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